Choosing Light

This book is a gentle and creative guide that supports the reader through their grief journey. Through the practice of mindful photography and reflection on self-made images, one learns to face grief and create meaning from their experience.

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The invention of the camera changed the capacity to see the world, remember events, document time, and capture emotions. For nearly two centuries, photography has been used in a myriad of circumstances. Its main function of freezing time through the creation of a visual image reflects a desire to remember experiences, people, and things, and to preserve them in a photograph. This desire may increase when the image-maker is experiencing an impending loss or is in the grief process. Photography is a medium of communication that can be used to relate to others, inspire the meaning-making process, document events, and memorialize significant life events—even death.

Imagery is a vital part of all the stories we create. Opening our eyes and hearts to death and loss and choosing to be mindfully present through the grief process engages the most authentic parts of ourselves. Our meaningful presence through the grief process and those reflective moments we create for ourselves become a path forward. As we allow the space for grief to evolve, we begin to notice our interconnectedness- and within those heartfelt moments we recognize the essence of who we are, and from there the seeds of inner strength are nourished.

There is a deficit of sufficient tools, rituals and practices to manage grief and loss, and talk therapy alone is not enough of an intervention. A number of people are visual learners and processors, which is just one reason this book is needed. Another reason this book is needed is because the experience of grief, death and dying is still considered a taboo subject and is difficult to think about and communicate about. Death avoidance and unhealthy grieving is problematic in many cultures, specifically Western culture.