This is How Your Marriage Ends (eBook)

It's hard to quibble with Fray's central message - that men could learn to "suck less" at marriage by becoming more attentive to their partners' feelings

Reveals why we (men and women) get it wrong so often and what we can do to fix it ... Entertaining, honest, and truly practical

Transformational

An important book! Especially for men ... He shines two lights, a black light over why marriages fail but also sunlight by injecting hope and encouraging couples to take ownership

The nuggets of good sense in this book could genuinely help save a few rocky marriages

Hard-hitting

Puts words to the human experience in a way that allows us to feel not only witnessed, but also to have hope rise from our all-too-common relational tragedies

Fray's insight is to realise that the substance of the dispute isn't that important - it was his reaction to his ex-wife's reaction to the dirty dishes that, over time, hollowed out their marriage ... Makes me want to try harder in future

Shares how the small things have big repercussions

One husband's confession you might be tempted to hand to your other half next time he does something infuriating

A fascinating book ... definitely worth a read

Funny and poignant ... a beautiful exposition on partnerships, love, and unpaid labor

Hugely resonant

Offers a frank and refreshingly modern view, one that never makes dated, flippant assumptions about love languages or Venus and Mars ... [Has] resonance for anyone who's ever had a broken heart - or labored to keep one from cracking

Fray's disarming personality and the sharing of his own story make people feel like they're not being judged ... His stark message: Don't end up like me