Self-Made Man

Presents the story of the author who dated women as a guy named Ned, infiltrated a men's therapy group, got a job in a testosterone-fuelled office and joined a bowling league where she was the worst player on her team. Her score never passed a 100 points. Everyone thought Ned was hopeless at bowling. They never thought she was a girl.

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Norah Vincent really did date women as a guy named Ned, retreat to a monastery, infiltrate a men's therapy group, get a job in a testosterone-fuelled office and join a bowling league where, even as the worst player on her team, the other fellows still chucked her on the shoulder, offered tips, and promised she'd get a handle on it one of these days. Her score never did pass a hundred points. They just thought Ned was hopeless at bowling. They never thought she was a girl.