Introduction:
The Best Advice I Ever Got
I spent a lot of time at my father’s office when I was a boy. Even when I was quite young, I knew that he was an example to follow: in our home, as a leader in our community, and as a great success in his business. I could tell by the way he carried himself and by the way others treated him. Even just walking in the front door of his office building gave me that sense. It was the kind of space that made an impression. The lobby was a big, open room with glossy white walls and high ceilings. On the right was an L-shaped couch where well-dressed people were often waiting to be called in for their meetings. Behind the couch there was an enormous poster that immediately called attention to itself, not just because of its size but because of its bright colors standing out against the monochromatic décor. It depicted a large school of orange fish going in one direction and one little blue fish trying to swim against them. Below the image was bold lettering that read, “Resist the Usual.”
For me, that poster summed up everything my father taught me about how to succeed in business and make my way in the world: It was about having the courage to go my own way and do what was necessary to get there. That meant gaining as much knowledge and experience as I could, setting big goals and challenging myself, working hard to achieve what I wanted, and trusting that with enough perseverance I would get where I wanted to go—even if everyone else was headed in the opposite direction.
My father was himself a kind of blue fish, always modeling this message for me and my three siblings. He was an immigrant from Spain. He came to Venezuela with his father, and in 1972 started a business from scratch. His first “office” was really just a rented house on the outskirts of the business district. By the mid-1990s he had moved into the gleaming offices that I remember so well and had built his company into a multimillion-dollar advertising agency, the largest of its kind in Venezuela. He partnered with the global agency Young & Rubicam (“Resist the Usual” was their slogan in the 1990s, and the poster had come from them) to create campaigns all over Latin America for multinational brands like Colgate, Citibank, Ford, and Diageo.
There is something about being that single blue fish in a sea of orange that gives a person real clarity about what he or she needs to do to succeed. My father reinforced that and other lessons throughout my entire childhood, but it wasn’t until I left home and became an immigrant myself, moving to the United States to attend graduate school and then pursue my career, that I truly understood how valuable they were. What worked for my father also worked for me, giving me the edge I needed to propel myself forward in a competitive environment. The best advice my father ever gave me was to continue striving to gain that edge. He showed me how to have the daily courage and tenacity to pursue the things that would allow me to swim against the tide and stand out from the crowd.
***
If you’re in business today and you’re paying attention, then you have already read about the dismal employee engagement numbers that the Gallup organization posts year after year after year. The percentage of employees who are “not engaged” or “actively disengaged” has hovered around 70 percent for years, costing the U.S. economy trillions of dollars. How to get employees to perform better is a common topic among the leaders I’ve known. What often gets overlooked or ignored in the discussion, however, is the fact that Gallup cites “poor leadership” as one of the main causes of this continual and costly problem. W. Chan Kim and Renee Mauborgne, professors of strategy and management at INSEAD, wrote a Harvard Business Review article on this subject, “Blue Ocean Leadership,” (May 2014) in which they noted: “Of course, managers don’t intend to be poor leaders. The problem is that they lack a clear understanding of just what changes it would take to bring out the best in everyone and achieve high impact.”
I currently serve as CEO of For Eyes, which is part of Grand-Vision, a global leader in optical retail with more than 7,000 stores worldwide, 120 of which are in the U.S. Before taking this position, I worked in a wide variety of industries—automotive, consumer products, quick-service restaurants, marketing and advertising, banking and private equity—and my personal experience backs up Gallup’s conclusion. And I get it. As leaders, we have a lot on our minds— from keeping our customers happy and managing legal and compliance issues to keeping our eyes on the bottom line. How to truly engage and get the best out of people is not something we are typically taught in business school. Plus, if Gallup is right, then most of the leaders who came before us and have shown us the way really haven’t excelled in this area either. Research shows that this is a longstanding problem across all industries.
What I have come to realize is that what it means to be a leader and what it truly takes to succeed as one are two things that far too often are in conflict with one another. It’s time that we, as leaders, give the skill of leadership the same focus we would any other aspect of the job and teach others in our organization, the leaders coming up behind us, how to do the same. That is what I aim to do with this book. Its main goal is to help people resist the usual messages that are creating far too many poor leaders and take responsibility for the way they lead.
About This Book
This book is organized into four sections, each of which highlights a different key element that, if applied well and with consistency, can help anyone resist common leadership pitfalls and instead build a leadership style that gives them an edge. Based on my own experience, research, and the lessons of top leaders I have known (whose insights will also be included), these four elements are the keys to success:
1. Knowledge, and your ability to gain and share it;
2. Expectations, and your ability to model and drive them within an organization;
3. Hard work, especially when paired with big dreams;
4. Trust, in yourself and in the people around you.
Equally important is how you utilize these elements as a leader. I’m not the first person to talk about what makes someone an effective leader, but I often find that books and speakers on the subject don’t talk much about the difficulty of applying these elements and making them relevant on a broad scale. Each of the elements I mentioned must be applied in a balanced way. That means they shouldn’t be one-sided or driven by the leader alone. For example, you cannot apply a different set of expectations (Leading Edge #2) to those around you than you do to yourself—not if you want people to respect you and your position. On the flip side, you can trust people (Leading Edge #4)—in fact you must trust people if you want to get things done—but you have to do it with your eyes open and with a clear and honest view of their abilities and character.
I call this balanced application “the barbell approach.” When I was in marketing at Burger King, we used something we called the barbell strategy to build our menus. Every menu needed value items on one end—those affordable, price-conscious items—that would drive traffic to our restaurants. At the same time, the menu needed premium offerings on the other end, items that would catch the customer’s eye once they were in the restaurant and drive up the ticket. There was always something for the customers and something for us—a successful menu always needed an even balance of the two.
That is the same approach this book will take. For each of the four key elements, you will find two chapters: one that describes how to apply that element personally, in your own life and career, and another that shows how to promote it among the people around you. For example, Leading Edge #1 is about knowledge. The first chapter under that heading (Gaining Knowledge—Ask, Listen, and Be Curious) covers how you can gain more knowledge in order to give yourself an edge. The second chapter under that heading (Sharing Knowledge—Provide Feedback and Promote Know-how) addresses how to share knowledge and promote knowledge sharing in those around you, so that the whole team or organization has a deeper well to draw from in order to grow and succeed.
This barbell approach means there is something for you and something for your people in each of the elements being discussed. The balanced application of the right elements is what will allow you to continue to gain an edge time and time again. To help ensure you’re on the right track, each section of the book ends with an assessment tool that will allow you to score yourself and monitor your progress.
When I talk about knowledge as one of the key elements for gaining an edge, I don’t just mean knowledge about your business; I’m also talking about self-knowledge. My father served as a model for me, as someone who was continually learning and growing throughout his life, no matter how much success he had achieved. This is crucial because you can’t gain an edge just once in your career. The world is ever changing and competition is never ending, so you always have to look for ways to...