I Am Not Her! (eBook)

How do you acknowledge something that you don't give a face to? You can't recognize it if you'reconstantly acting as if whatever hurt you've been subjected to doesn't exist. Generational curses are beingpassed down because people are taught not to speak on the "e;uncomfortable hurt."e; Many people comefrom families/communities that sweep everything under the rug like the issue never happened. How doyou move on with life if your mind is in bondage due to your unaddressed issues? The moment youacknowledge abuse, molestation, depression, suicidal thoughts, addiction, or abandonment (whatever hasgiven you pain) is the moment you give that thing a face. That's when healing takes place. That's when thatthing is real and your identity is no longer associated with your past. That thing is no longer leeching offyour existence. You can look in the mirror and actually see a person, versus whatever you've labeledyourself or whatever people have labeled you. You can finally talk about the situation and no longer beembarrassed/ashamed of it. Exposure brings about healing. Healing is the key to accomplishing life andgiving it our all. That's all God wants from us. Think of life like a buried diamond. How can God use you,or how can you live life to your fullest potential if you are buried in dirt? The diamond is there. However,the different layers of earth are keeping the diamond in bondage. Therefore, there's no use for it at thatpoint. It is simply being prepared to shine bright. I listen to classical music because it triggers the inner child within myself. It brings back bananascovered in peanut butter and the sticker apples that were put on the plastic tree if you behaved (the applewas removed for bad behavior). Mozart would play through the room as we napped on our mats. Itbrought back the smell of cinnamon that used to cover my father's studio office. Thinking of these goodmoments will not take away the hurt that wasn't addressed. Get to the bottom of it so that you can glowand live life to the fullest! You deserve nothing but the best, so go for it.