Why Every Black Woman Should Marry a Jewish Man - Dr. Nazaree Hines-starr Pharm D.

Why Every Black Woman Should Marry a Jewish Man (eBook)

A Book for All Women Looking for the Perfect &quote;Alpha&quote; Male

Dr. Nazaree Hines-starr Pharm D. (Autor)

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2017 | 1. Auflage
200 Seiten
CreateSpace Independent Publishing (Verlag)
978-1-77277-170-1 (ISBN)

A refreshing easy read with a thought-provoking , unique perspective. Exploration of why Jewish men are compatible with professional African-American women and young thriving Caucasian females. This controversial work also contains, heartfelt poetry, practical dating and relationship dating advice as well as an eye-opening view into the Jewish culture and its positive affect on family life and romantic relationships. Throughout the book, reasons are provided why Jewish men make fantasic lovers, husbands and fathers. Overall, finding Mr.Right is not a one size fits all and involves a multi-prong approach. One must date with quality in mind, be open to interracial dating, observe good dating etiquette, be willing to try different dating methods, address any personality issues that may be acting as an obstacle to you interacting with Mr.Right, and apply faith in dating. It is my wish that every woman finds her 'Prince Charming' and every man becomes 'Prince Charming.' I would also like to see us jumpstart meaningful programs to improve the lives of all of our children.

A refreshing easy read with a thought-provoking , unique perspective. Exploration of why Jewish men are compatible with professional African-American women and young thriving Caucasian females. This controversial work also contains, heartfelt poetry, practical dating and relationship dating advice as well as an eye-opening view into the Jewish culture and its positive affect on family life and romantic relationships. Throughout the book, reasons are provided why Jewish men make fantasic lovers, husbands and fathers. Overall, finding Mr.Right is not a one size fits all and involves a multi-prong approach. One must date with quality in mind, be open to interracial dating, observe good dating etiquette, be willing to try different dating methods, address any personality issues that may be acting as an obstacle to you interacting with Mr.Right, and apply faith in dating. It is my wish that every woman finds her "e;Prince Charming"e; and every man becomes "e;Prince Charming."e; I would also like to see us jumpstart meaningful programs to improve the lives of all of our children.

EFORE I MET my husband, I had my share of dating “Toads.” This chapter is a summary of the relationships and dating encounters that I had with jerks that motivated me to choose interracial dating as an option. To all the “Toads” I have dated over the years, thank you for being such “terrific guys” because your actions prompted me to look in a completely different direction. Names have been changed to protect these “non-prince charmings” from being revealed.

Spencer

Spencer was a loud-mouth guy I met in Bakers, a popular shoe store back in Cleveland, Ohio. Since I went to an all girls Catholic high school (Regina: Home of the Royals), finding a date for prom was an adventure. Spencer was cute, so I decided to give him a chance. We went out for a couple of weeks, and I decided to go to my prom with him. He actually ended up being an extra date for prom weekend because I already had someone to go with me to the formal and the cookout, but I needed a date for the outing. (Yes, I had two dates for prom weekend, but the lesson here is that quantity is not always better than quality. On at least one of those dates I would have been better off going solo.) The outing was Putt-Putt golf, where he behaved himself. Unfortunately, the evening took a nasty turn when we went to the local Pizza Hut afterward. It started with his loud mouth saying, “Why don’t they have any black people in the pictures on the wall?” He said it so loudly that everyone heard him in the restaurant, including the staff. Of course we were asked to leave, and I never went out with him again.

Kingston

Kingston was a slacker, but one who claimed that he had very lofty ambitions. He said that he was attending barber school, but it never occurred to him to open his own business. He was a nice guy, but I always had to drive on our dates because he didn’t have a car. He gave me some story about how his driver’s license was revoked, and somehow his version of the story seemed a little shady. Nonetheless, I continued to date him. I really tried to make the relationship work until the night he tried to get in my pants and we had only been dating for a few weeks. We were still trying to get to know each other and it was too early to get physical at that point. He didn’t want to wait for me, so that was the end of the relationship.

Relationship lesson: sometimes it’s a good idea to let a new suitor know where you stand so not to get expectations too high in the beginning, This will also weed out those only looking to get in you pants!

Mickey

Mickey had a great family background. We met at a club, so I was totally shocked that he was somewhat decent. After dating for some months, he invited me to go to Florida with him for a family reunion. Of course we had separate rooms so I felt safe. I needed a break for the summer, so I agreed to go with him on the condition that we go to Disney World or Epcot sometime during the weekend. I had gone to the Disney theme park many times over the years with my family, but I wanted to go because I didn’t get to Florida that often. Unfortunately, the family reunion was the highlight of the weekend but because he felt obligated to squeeze in a trip to Disney World he had to make an effort to follow through. He promised me that we would go to the park and since it was our last day in Florida and we were desperately running out of time. Because Disney was simply an afterthought to him, we almost missed our flight back home. I think that he thought that I was going to change my mind about Disney, so it wasn’t high on the priority list on the itinerary during the trip. Surprisingly, his family was great: you could really feel the love. All of his relatives seemed really successful and so warm so I couldn’t figure out what happened to him. Anyway, I was enjoying myself, but I got the impression that I was the first woman he had brought as a date to the reunion, so people gave me the strange impression that we were getting married or something. Mickey had no ambition at all and although he was older than me, it was quite disturbing to me that we were virtually at the same point in life. I didn’t feel confident that he could do better or that he even wanted to. We never saw each other again.

The lesson here is to recognize the sign of a great guy: one who will consider what you would like to do on a date, and it says a lot when a guy goes out of his way to make you happy. The second lesson here is that most women are attracted to an ambitious guy: a guy who wants to make something of himself and pursue a life goal. Mickey would have been a good match since he was relationship-oriented, but unfortunately, he lacked ambition.

Ashton

Ashton was a male whore. He came from a hardworking, successful family, but again, he was someone who managed to fall through the cracks. He had absolutely no morals, and really his main goal was to get into my pants. I don’t know why I didn’t see that from the beginning. He said he wanted to become an architect, but he had flunked out in his second semester. He knew that he would eventually inherit the family business, so somehow I think he felt it was all right for him to fail in school. But if he was serious about that endeavor, it would have made sense for him to pursue a business degree instead of architecture. It’s really sad when you don’t know what you have and thus ruin opportunities to have a good life. In the end, he was just a tall guy with pretty eyes. I got the impression that Ashton didn’t realize that he was fortunate to have what some of us can only wish we had.

The lesson here is to never take for granted the blessings that we are given in life. I hope Ashton has learned that at the end of the day, if you don’t respect your body, nobody else will.

Keith

Keith was nice looking, very smart, and seemed to be ambitious. He was tall, fair complexion, and had a reasonably nice build. He was an electrical engineering student, so I thought at least we would have a love of the sciences in common. We met at OSU in the student cafeteria on campus. He never really seemed to go out anywhere, but he was constantly inviting me to meet him at his garage laboratory on campus where he was working on projects. When I arrived at the lab he would explain to me how his robot worked, and most of the time I just pretended to be interested. He really gave me mixed messages with the invitations to meet him. I don’t know why he bothered asking me to come visit him if he did not want to pursue a relationship. Eventually I stopped going to see him because I realized that he wanted someone to explain his latest project to without having to bother having a girlfriend.

One dating lesson here is to respond to mixed messages intelligently by not spending time trying to figure them out. Any guy who is genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with a female will make sure she knows it. When Keith started sending me all these weird directives, this should have been the end of the dating game with him. Ambition without accountability is a train wreck.

Julian aka Missing In Action

Julian was a soldier I met at a restaurant bar. At the time he was on leave from Iraq. He told me that he was separated and had a little girl. At this point I was in my late twenties, so I was willing to compromise. He was a little younger than me, but I didn’t see it as an issue at the time. I proceeded with this relationship because he was sexy and made me laugh. I did not want someone with baggage and there was always a chance that he could get back with the wife, but I decided to take a chance.

This story ended when he went back to Iraq. Unfortunately, I did not get any communication for over a year, but this wasn’t because he was injured or worse, but because he reunited with his ex-wife (which I didn’t know at the time). I thought something dreadful had happened to him when I didn’t hear from him. I thought that the least he could do was say, “Hey, by the way, I’m not dead, I’m just back with my ex-wife.” When I finally heard from him it was in an e-mail, not a phone call. Men are such cowards. Julian seemed to think that everything was about the relationship. I think that if we had simply been friends, he definitely would have made sure that I knew he hadn’t dropped off the face of the earth. Ironically, he later saw my wedding photos on Facebook and commented that I was a beautiful bride.

The lesson here is to not ignore the nagging thoughts in the back of your mind, because what you suspect might be true may actually be real. Julian’s often vague answers to my questions should have been a clue that he was hiding something and perhaps had not resolved his old relationship before entering a new one.

Kelvin

Kelvin had the drive and ambition for success and fortune, but unfortunately not in dating or marriage. Kelvin was quite attractive and had a really sweet mother and grandfather. Most of his family were successful professionals and were in loving, stable relationships. I don’t know what happened to him, because none of those relationship skills rubbed off on him. Of course, I didn’t get that last part until years later. We broke up and got back together so many times that I felt as if we were in a revolving door. A lot of...

Erscheint lt. Verlag	7.7.2017
Sprache	englisch
Themenwelt	Sachbuch/Ratgeber ► Gesundheit / Leben / Psychologie ► Partnerschaft / Sexualität
ISBN-10	1-77277-170-8 / 1772771708
ISBN-13	978-1-77277-170-1 / 9781772771701

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