The Emotionally Abusive Relationship (eBook)
272 Seiten
John Wiley & Sons (Verlag)
978-0-471-37447-3 (ISBN)
-Susan Forward, author of Emotional Blackmail Praise for the
emotionally abusive relationship
"In this book, Beverly Engel clearly and with caring offers
step-by-step strategies to stop emotional abuse. . . helping both
victims and abusers to identify the patterns of this painful and
traumatic type of abuse. This book is a guide both for individuals
and for couples stuck in the tragic patterns of emotional
abuse."
-Marti Loring, Ph.D., author of Emotional Abuse
and coeditor of The Journal of Emotional Abuse
"This groundbreaking book succeeds in helping people stop emotional
abuse by focusing on both the abuser and the abused and showing
each party what emotional abuse is, how it affects the
relationship, and how to stop it. Its unique focus on the dynamic
relationship makes it more likely that each person will grasp the
tools for change and really use them."
-Randi Kreger, author of The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook
and owner of BPDCentral.com
The number of people who become involved with partners who abuse
them emotionally and/or who are emotionally abusive themselves is
phenomenal, and yet emotional abuse is the least understood form of
abuse. In this breakthrough book, Beverly Engel, one of the world's
leading experts on the subject, shows us what it is and what to do
about it.
Whether you suspect you are being emotionally abused, fear that you
might be emotionally abusing your partner, or think that both you
and your partner are emotionally abusing each other, this book is
for you. The Emotionally Abusive Relationship will tell you how to
identify emotional abuse and how to find the roots of your
behavior. Combining dramatic personal stories with action steps to
heal, Engel provides prescriptive strategies that will allow you
and your partner to work together to stop bringing out the worst in
each other and stop the abuse.
By teaching those who are being emotionally abused how to help
themselves and those who are being emotionally abusive how to stop
abusing, The Emotionally Abusive Relationship offers the expert
guidance and support you need.
BEVERLY ENGEL is an internationally recognized therapist with an expertise in abuse, women's issues, relationships, and sexuality. She is the author of several nonfiction books, including Loving Him without Losing You, Honor Your Anger, The Power of Apology, and The Emotionally Abused Woman. Engel has appeared on many national television shows, including Oprah, Donahue, Ricki Lake, Sally Jessy Raphael, and others.
Acknowledgments.
Introduction.
Part One: Identifying and Understanding Emotional Abuse.
1. Emotional Abuse?The Destroyer of Relationships.
2. Patterns of Abuse.
3. Not All Emotionally Abusive Relationships Are Alike.
4. Patterns That Begin in Childhood: Why We Abuse and Why We
Take It.
Part Two: Stopping the Abuse.
5. Action Steps for Those Being Abused.
6. Action Steps for the Abusive Partner.
7. Action Steps for the Abusive Couple.
8. When Your Partner Has a Personality Disorder.
9. When Your Abusiveness Stems from Your Personality
Disorder.
Part Three: Where Do You Go from Here?
10. Should You Stay or Should You Leave?
11. Preventing Emotional Abuse in the Future.
12. Continuing to Recover.
Epilogue.
References.
Further Reading.
Websites and Chat Rooms.
Index.
According to therapist Engel (The Emotionally Abusive
Relationship: How To Stop Being Abused and How To Stop
Abusing), "even the most loving person" is capable of emotional
abuse-that is, "any non-physical behavior designed to control,
intimidate, subjugate, demean, punish, or isolate." In a reasoned,
sensible tone, she encourages readers to become responsible for
their behavior and for changing it. Identified are ten "patterns of
abuse" (verbal assault, character assassination, etc.), different
kinds of abusive relationships, action steps for cessation, and
suggestions for recovery. Using dense writing and cogent examples,
Engel clearly shows how this type of abuse, either intentional or
unconscious leads to low self-esteem and misery for one or both
partners. A difficult and draining yet important read for those who
suspect that their relationship has entered abusive territory,
this book is highly recommended. (Library Journal,
September 15, 2002)
"A good, solid treatment of an insidious but all-too-common type of
relationship in which the weapons are words and moods rather than
fists, but which do just as much damage. Most importantly, Beverly
Engel doesn't just describe--she shows us the way out." --Susan
Forward, bestselling author of Emotional Blackmail, Men Who Hate
Women and the Women Who Love Them, and Toxic Parents
Erscheint lt. Verlag | 29.11.2002 |
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Sprache | englisch |
Themenwelt | Sachbuch/Ratgeber ► Gesundheit / Leben / Psychologie ► Lebenshilfe / Lebensführung |
Sachbuch/Ratgeber ► Gesundheit / Leben / Psychologie ► Partnerschaft / Sexualität | |
Sachbuch/Ratgeber ► Gesundheit / Leben / Psychologie ► Psychologie | |
Schlagworte | Ratgeber • Ratgeber Beziehungen • relationships • Self-Help |
ISBN-10 | 0-471-37447-4 / 0471374474 |
ISBN-13 | 978-0-471-37447-3 / 9780471374473 |
Informationen gemäß Produktsicherheitsverordnung (GPSR) | |
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