Truth about Cheating (eBook)

M. Gary Neuman is a licensed family counselor and rabbi, the coauthor of In Good Times and Bad, and the author of Emotional Infidelity and Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way. A frequent guest on Oprah, he has also appeared multiple times on Today, Good Morning America, The View, and National Public Radio. He and his work have been featured in People, Time, Parents, and other major publications. Neuman is the creator of Marriage Turnaround Intensive, an innovative all-day approach to couples therapy. He maintains a private practice in Miami Beach, where he lives with his wife and five children. Visit his Web site at www.mgaryneuman.com.

Acknowledgments.

PART ONE: Why and How Men Cheat.

1. This Book Will Change Your Marriage.

2. The Real Reasons Men Cheat.

QUICK ACTION PROGRAM.

Step One: Keep Tabs on His Friends and Family.

3. Warning Bells, Cheating Signals, and Lying Signs.

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Step Two: Change the Cheating Signals.

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Step Three: Get Involved in His Work and Play Lives.

4. Understanding the Male Mind: Connecting Emotionally.

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Step Four: Practice Emotional Giving.

5. The Power of Sex.

PART TWO: How to Improve Your Marriage.

6. Insightful Change: The Inner Voice Recognition Formula.

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Step Five: Emotional Giving.

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Step Six: Sex.

7. Lessons from Successful Marriages.

8. Caring for Yourself.

9. Responding to Your Husband's Love.

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Step Seven: Finding the Time to Love.

Epilogue: What We've Learned about What You Can Do.

Appendix A: Will Therapy Help?

Appendix B: Healing after an Affair.

Recommended Reading.

Index.