Getting Past the Affair (eBook)

Douglas K. Snyder, PhD, is Professor of Psychology and Director of Clinical Training at Texas A&M University. He received the American Psychological Association’s award for Distinguished Contributions to Family Psychology for his research on marital satisfaction and therapy. He lives in College Station, Texas, where he also has a private practice.Donald H. Baucom, PhD, is Professor of Psychology at the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill. His research, funded in part by the National Institutes of Health, focuses on couples and marriage. He lives in Chapel Hill, North Carolina, and was ranked as one of the top marital therapists and researchers in the United States by Good Housekeeping’s national survey of mental health professionals.Kristina Coop Gordon, PhD, is Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Tennessee. Her research focuses on forgiveness, infidelity, and couple therapy. In addition to her academic work, she lives and maintains a private practice in Knoxville, Tennessee.

IntroductionI. How Do We Stop Hurting?1. What's Happening to Us?2. How Do We Get Through the Day?3. How Do We Talk with Each Other?4. How Do We Deal with Others?5. How Do We Care for Ourselves?II. How Did This Happen?6. Why Stir Everything Up?7. Was My Marriage to Blame?8. Was It the World Around Us?9. How Could My Partner Have Done This?10. What Was My Role?11. How Do I Make Sense of It All?III. Can This Marriage Be Saved?12. How Do I Get Past the Hurt?13. Can This Marriage Be Saved?14. What Lies Ahead?Additional Resources