How Do I Sexy?

Mx. Nillin Lore is a trans and queer activist, advocate, and educator based in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. They have published queer erotica stories in a number of anthologies including Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year volumes 4– 6 and The Big Book of Orgasms Volume 2 (Cleis Press). They co-authorred a chapter of Trans Bodies, Trans Selves (Oxford University Press) and are the editor of Heckin' Lewd: Trans and Nonbinary Erotica and Emerging Selves: An Exploration of Gender Identity (Bold Strokes Books).

Foreword
Acknowledgements
Chapter One: The Ventura Effect
Chapter Two: What the Hell Even is “Sexy”?
Chapter Three: Coping With Fear, Shame, Guilt, and Insecurity
Chapter Four: Making Your Personal Mantras
Chapter Five: Saying No to Traditional Gender Roles; and Other Harmful Ideals
Chapter Six: Get Your Sexy On
Chapter Seven: Dating, Flirting, and Finding Community
Chapter Eight: Trans Queer Affirming Sex; What It Is and How To Have It
Conclusion
Glossary
Resources
Index