With Pleasure - August McLaughlin, Jamila Dawson

With Pleasure

Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships
Buch | Softcover
224 Seiten
2021
Chicago Review Press (Verlag)
978-1-64160-503-8 (ISBN)
22,35 inkl. MwSt
A companion for anyone experiencing the effects of trauma, featuring true stories of survivors from a broad, inclusive range of backgrounds

With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships is a companion for anyone experiencing the effects of trauma. Through true survivor stories, expert insight, writing prompts, and grounding exercises, it explores pleasure, relationships, and community as worthy and essential antidotes in trying times.
 
Written by trauma-informed sex therapist Jamila Dawson, LMFT, and sexuality journalist and podcaster August McLaughlin, With Pleasure provides a much-needed alternative to harmful “self-help” ideologies that instruct people to “change their thoughts” or “choose to be happy.”

Instead, Dawson and McLaughlin encourage readers to respect their feelings, understand the complexities of a society and systems that fuel trauma, foster self-compassion, and embrace pleasure.
 

August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, trauma-informed certified sex educator, and host and producer of the podcast Girl Boner Radio. Her articles have been featured by Cosmopolitan, the Washington Post, Salon, HuffPost, LIVESTRONG.com, and more. She is the author of Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment, featured in the New York Times, Health, and Shape. She has presented at colleges, recovery centers, and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention headquarters in Atlanta. Jamila Dawson, LMFT is a licensed sex and relationship therapist, writer, and educator. She runs her private psychotherapy and consulting business, Fire & Flow Therapy, and teaches as adjunct faculty at Antioch University Los Angeles. She has lectured at the University of Southern California and AASECT Summer Institute, and collaborated with a variety of sex therapists and educators, as well asBuzzfeed,Playboy,Harper's Bazaar, and other media outlets. She presents locally and nationally on sexuality, empowerment, BDSM/kink, pleasure, relationships, and trauma-informed/healing-focused psychotherapy.

Foreword

About this Book

1  “Why is this happening to me?”

August: In Her Own Words

Jamila: Why Sex Therapy?

2   “What is happening to me?”

Desiree: Trust, Disability, and BDSM

KM: Finding Zen

3   “How can I stop this?”

Anne: Reclaiming Self-Worth

Wolf: Chosen Family, Consent, and Cis Male Survivors

4   “I need help.”

Gloria: Different (Not Broken) and Sex-Positive Therapy

Nadia: Day Programs, Group Therapy, and Settling Into Love

Ginny and Jean: Grief, Communication, and Safer Self-Help

5   “I am such a problem.”

RenÉ: ADHD and Self-Understanding

Robert and Hannah: Building Trust, Intimacy, and Communication

6   “Healing is taking too long.”

Natalie: Awareness, Reframing, and Orgasmic Meditation

Beth: Intergenerational Trauma and Ancestral Strength

7   “They don’t understand.”

Taylor: Life-Saving Psychiatry and Developing Her True Self

EL: Embracing Desires and Sexuality Integration

8   “How can I get my life back?”

Kimleigh: You are Your Own Superhero

Arden: Awareness, Magic, and Sexual Narratives

Jazz: No Longer Conforming and Ancestral and Animist Practices

9   “Should I forgive? If so, how?”

Cheryl: Owning her Story, Forgiveness as Freedom

Andrea: Pleasure to Behold, Forgiveness as Optional

10   “Dang. I thought I was healed.”

Winnie: “Baby Steps” Back to Pleasure

Brian: Permission to Struggle and Grow

Suggested Exercises and Illustrations

Afterword: Our process with this book

Additional Resources
References

Erscheinungsdatum
Zusatzinfo Illustrations, unspecified
Verlagsort Chicago
Sprache englisch
Maße 152 x 228 mm
Themenwelt Sachbuch/Ratgeber Gesundheit / Leben / Psychologie Krankheiten / Heilverfahren
Geisteswissenschaften Psychologie Persönlichkeitsstörungen
Sozialwissenschaften Soziologie
ISBN-10 1-64160-503-0 / 1641605030
ISBN-13 978-1-64160-503-8 / 9781641605038
Zustand Neuware
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